BEing a man with purpose.

One of the qualities that makes your wife attracted to you is being a man on your purpose. When you are on your purpose you possess a strong core masculinity that your wife will detect in you instantly and you become immune to situations that would normally give you those feelings of insecurity. Living a life of purpose is like an anchor. It is a foundational rock of support that stabilizes you. You are not easily shaken as a man. I will explain how to find a purpose to achieve this for yourself, but let’s talk about what happens when you don’t have a purpose. If you don’t have a purpose, you have those feelings of insecurity. When you don't have a purpose, you easily get the insecure feelings that have an effect on your wife and your marriage. You know what I am talking about. We’ve all experienced these insecure feelings at some point or another in our marriages. These insecure feelings pop up during our lives over and over. Turning us into weak, indecisive men and ruining potential relationships with our amazing wives we deeply care about. One second, you think everything is fine but then, the feelings of insecurity knock you out of balance and make you lose control as a man. Worst of all, these feelings make you do weak and insecure behaviors that make your wife quickly lose attraction for you. Behaviors like giving your away your masculine power in order to please her being the needy husband who always has to check in with her and being constantly fearful of losing her which in turn comes to sacrificing your purpose and compromising your principles in order to avoid losing her. All of these behaviors weaken you in your wife's eyes. However, when you have a clear purpose in life, it’s much harder to catch those insecure feelings, and the unattractive behaviors go away. Think of it this way. There are two large spheres in the vast emptiness of space. One is the sphere of insecurity and another is the sphere of purpose. Now imagine yourself going through life. You are like an astronaut flying through space. If you don’t have a purpose the sphere of insecurity is going to suck you in. What will it do? You will get those feelings of insecurity and you will always wonder where you stand with her. There will always be the noise of fear in the back of your mind. However, if you have a solid sphere of purpose in your life it will keep you grounded. and the external forces of gravity coming from the sphere of insecurity won’t affect you. You might still feel some feelings of insecurity, but it will be a faint insignificant background noise instead of an overwhelming force that puts you out of balance. So that’s why it’s so important to have a purpose. Be a man who is grounded on your purpose.

Are you grounded on your path or are you oriented to what your wife is doing? Be a man on your purpose, and stay on your path regardless of what your wife is doing. Weather the storm of external stimuli and emotions that try to take you off your path. Find that inner strength you have that allows you to stick to your purpose and follow your path. How do you find your masculine purpose? That question would ask, what is your purpose? What vision do you have that you see yourself doing in the future? For me, that purpose is learning to understand and get better with my wife. And learning to coach other men to get better as well. Having passion! These days, your purpose can be almost anything as long as you are passionate about it. If you don’t know what your purpose is? Go out and try new things.Try meditating on what thoughts come to mind. Maybe a project that you are working on or maybe would like to do. Maybe there is a life situation that you know how to handle and could have the potential of bursting at the seems with a passion to resolve it. Those sorts of things can lead to your purpose. You can also sign up for a couple classes. Go to the library and read some books. The key here is go and do something. It may take a while. Eventually it may take weeks or months but start to do something today. One day you’ll wake up and you may not want to do anything else but that one thing. It will be the driving force that gets you to wake up in the morning. Something that you really love doing something that you don’t consider as work. And once you know you are on your path, you won’t be distracted as much by negative feelings like getting worried about one lady, your wife. That is the benefit of being a man on your purpose. Schedule your free consultation and lets discover your path and your purpose in life. We can discuss the different options you have with my services.