Can you guarantee that my wife will come back to me?
- Apr 25, 2018
- 2 min read
I just spoke with a guy that wants to enlist me as his Man-Up Strategy Coach.
He asked me twice while I was on the phone with him, Can you guarantee that my wife will come back to me?
He is stuck with being obsessed over getting his wife back and is having a hard time letting go. It's been 4 months for him since his wife left him.
As I have said in previous posts that your wife has to want to be with you. You have to make the authentic and genuine changes with raw determination. You can't waiver from any plans you make for that change. Any man or woman can make those fundamental changes in their lives to be better and live a quality life. It has to do with letting go of the lies. All of them.
My answer to this brother was "No. I can not guarantee that your wife will come back to you. She has to want to come back to you. But I can guarantee that if you really work on yourself and be consistent that you will be a better man, a better husband and a better father."
Of course there was a lot more that I said to him but this is a question that a lot of men will ask in various ways when they are talking with me. They are waiting to hear that I can guarantee that their wives will be in their arms again.
Let's be real here. I can't make your wife do anything. I could not make my own wife come back to me. So you would be no different. But I can give you some hope through understanding. Read my previous posts about getting your wife back. My posts are supplemental to my coaching services. Every situation is unique and it's your choice to enlist a coach in your life to bring you through the toughest situations but to also give you real tools to use through your process of change. What you get in return is that you stand a much better chance to get your wife back with all the changes you make in your life but they must be authentic. You attracted your wife to begin with and now you must man-up to re-attract her and live that life for good.
Click here for a free consultation. I will discuss with you the different plans I have to get you back on course with your life.
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